Personal Hygiene & Sex

So you would think that everyone would want to be clean before they meet someone for the 1st time, but cleanliness means different things to different people. Although there should be a universal standard of personal hygiene when it comes to sex whether you're a male or a female, unfortunately there isn't so you have to navigate through what can sometimes be an extremely embarrassing or uncomfortable situation by yourself.

Let me start by saying if you are meeting someone for a date for the 1st time you should always make sure that you look and smell nice, now if you are planning on having sex with your date you really need to pay extra attention to these things before you leave your house. So here's some things you should definitely make sure you do before setting out on a date:

1. Have a nice soak in the bath (or have a long shower if you're not a bath person)

2. Moisturise your skin - You don't wanna look dry and flakey and dehydrated

3. Put on a good strength deodorant

4. Wear freshly washed and pressed clean clothes - No stains or small holes & also check for white deodorant marks after you've put them on, then wipe them off

5. Brush your teeth - Also drink water on the way (or even get chewing gum) so your breath stays smelling fresh

6. Finish by spraying your fav cologne

Now if you already do all of this, this is good but some people are sometimes noseblind to their own scent because they've smelled it so often that they don't realize it may be off putting to the new person they're trying to get to know and unfortunately there are some horrible disgusting little shits who have no respect for their date and don't give 2 shits what they smell like or how they come across to you.

You should also be mindful of your toilet habits and by this I mean actually cleaning your penis after peeing (as opposed to just shaking) so it continues to smell nice and fresh particularly if you are wanting a females mouth to be near your genitals and also the same for females, basically just walk with wipes and freshen up down there beforehand.

Also if you're a bit stuck on the best scents to appeal to women on your date here are the top 4

1. Jasmine

2. Rose

3. Vanilla

4. Sandlewood

So basically when you are choosing a cologne just look for one that has any of these as a top note or another option is to just buy these as essential oils and apply them to your body (but obviously mix them with a carrier oil like almond oil to protect your skin)

Obviously no one likes to be told (or tell someone) you stink so if you're just mindful of these simple things you can avoid these situations altogether and have an amazing 1st date.