Refractory period-What can I do?

So on my latest podcast I talked about a man needing down time straight after he's come during sex,this time is called a refractory period. During this time he's not going to be able to orgasm or even get hard. It's almost like the part of his body you crave the most during that time is completely unresponsive and there really is no point trying to give him head to try and revive his dick as it may hurt your feelings when absolutely nothing happens despite your best efforts.

So while it can be super frustrating especially if you still need to come again there are ways to deal with it without giving your man the death glare till he's ready to go again lol So if he's completely knocked out then it's definitely time to get out the toys and the 2 I'd recommend are this vibrator, (that I've actually mentioned before) but it's soooooo good I had to mention it again.

Now this will make you come sooooo hard you'll totally forget your man didn't give you that one last orgasm before he was out of it.

Another toy to try during this time is this super flexible rabbit vibrator. It's so bendy so you can make it hit anywhere inside you and as well as various vibration patterns and intensities it also has a warming feature which is supposed feel more realistic inside and help you have a better orgasm.

Now if you want the most amazing mind blowing orgasm then you could definitely combine the two as they really do compliment each other.

So if your man is down but not out there are also other things you can do that will be enjoyable and can be a turn on and help you both get ready for another round.

Sensual touch

Explore each others bodies, learn each others erogenous zones and experiment with various touching methods to turn each other on. You can even involve some props like ice, feathers, silk and try running down different body parts and see how you each react to it. You may prefer a harder touch or a soft touch, circles or straight lines, just experiment and take your time and just remember this is just a fun exercise the whole point is the enjoy each other not necessarily to have an orgasm so don't put pressure on yourself, although if you do happen to have an orgasm then happy days :)

Massage

Now massages are good because you or your man may be achy after sex so it's nice and relaxing. You can make it super chilled using essential oils or you can make it a bit more dirty by bringing in the whipped cream or chocolate.

Sooooo hopefully once you've tried all these methods your man would've been ready to go again Woop Woop!